Ros Welch is located in the beautiful village of Haddenham in Buckinghamshire, convenient for Tring.
The following are extracts from recent articles of mine:
With each death that we experience we learn that no bereavement is isolated, each death evokes renewed grieving for previous loss. The death of the last parent in particular often reactivates mourning for the first parental loss.
We often do not properly mourn the first parent as we are so pre-occupied with the surviving parent. It is not always obvious which parent we are mourning when the last one dies.
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Out of Balance Relationships:
We expect a balance, when we perceive an imbalance the relationship is under threat.Happiest relationships are where both parties feel they are both investing the same amount, imbalance causes one party to feel over-benefitted or under-benefitted with feelings of guilt or injustice. Relationships where one party feels greatly over or under benefitted will not be stable.
Even considering the increased equality between the sexes and the greater acceptance of same sex relationships, there remains the roles of protector and protected in most intimate relationships. The natural instincts of both sexes; the hunter and the nurturer are often mirrored in same sex relationships, is this just a sensible division of roles or do our personalities require a compensatory partner. >> read more
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Together we identify goals with realistic outcomes in acceptable timescales. We work positively to make a lasting difference to accept the past, make change in the present, and enhance the future.
Unexpected change can be difficult to manage, it can be hard to think straight given the busy lives we lead, trying to make sense of the unpredictable can leave us anxious, stressed and angry. Life’s changes; redundancy, bereavement, loss, illness or broken relationships can leave us in tatters and Counselling can help you on your journey to acceptance.
“It was very easy to talk to Ros, the sessions were relaxed and comfortable, I felt really heard. She often challenged me and my ideas, I felt I learnt something at every session, I gained insight and self- awareness, it was like a layer of skin being peeled from my eyes.”
“I had always suffered low self esteem and never knew why, Ros was the 1st person who understood, she helped me see things from a different perspective. I feel confident and look forward to my future.”
Following a successful career in design, marketing and finance, following a series of life-changing events I became inspired me, now in my 50’s, to channel my experiences into helping others as a counsellor.
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